IN MEMORIAM

Glass Doors — Paterson, NJ — AAA Metal & Glass Inc

In Memory of Founder Gerald Charles Feather

Gerald Charles Feather - C.E.O

May 01, 1949 – September 22, 2012

Jerry was everything a father, husband, and employer should be. He was kind, extremely generous, put others before himself, and always took the time to talk to anyone he contacted. If you are reading this, you most likely experienced Jerry’s gift for gab first hand. Jerry attended college in Maine, which was by choice; however, we still think it is the only school that would accept him! At a young age, he married his first wife, Patricia, acquired a job in advertising, and shortly after that, he had his first child, Evan, who was followed four years later by a daughter Jennifer. Working many long hours, Jerry quit that advertising job telling his wife he didn’t get to see his children enough, and was lured into the glass business to promise “easy money” and “bankers’ hours.”

Gerald Charles Feather — Paterson, NJ — AAA Metal & Glass Inc

At the age of nine, Evan began working with his father (he says there's a time card to confirm that). This work continued for Evan after school, on weekends & holidays. It didn’t seem like work to him, though, just an opportunity to spend time with his father. Jerry did have a few rules he insisted his son follow, such as always keeping a notebook and being sure to write everything down (even though he would still bring in jobs written on the back of a matchbook cover or a post-it.) More importantly, he taught his son never to walk away from a job, difficult task, or even a fight. He said people will always remember two things about you: 1. that you showed up and 2: that you finished. The in-between part of a job was all just details.

 

Jerry also recited that age-old saying, “the customer is always right” however, he added, “except when they were wrong.” He instilled the importance of treating everyone the same, being fair, and trying your hardest every day in work, life, and love. As both a business owner and a father, he made everyone around him laugh with his silly jokes. No matter what happened during a workday, it was impossible to stay mad at the man.

When Jerry’s wife Patricia passed away, it was an enormous loss to him and the whole family. However, as fate would have it, he was fortunate enough to find true love again with his second wife, Barbara. Becoming a blended family was easy for Jerry as he had so much love to share. Perhaps the single greatest joy was his grandchildren and his time with them. The love he bestowed upon them and the love he received back was a gift he cherished most while here. It is only logical to believe Jerry continues to look after all his grandchildren from above.

 

There is not a day that goes by that we at AAA Metal & Glass don’t think of Jerry somehow. We remember Jerry, whether it is the subtle reminder of seeing his handwriting on an old file or something more significant like hearing another story of how he impacted a stranger’s life. He was truly a people person – he loved life and sharing it with others, but most of all, he made us all feel like we mattered.

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